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Less-than-a-quarter-life Crisis - By Dilara Bhuiyan


Am I actually a good person? Are you? What does it mean to be good? Objectively. What measures goodness? Is it religion? Politics? Morals? Activism? Philosophy? Habits? Way of living? Speaking? One’s Aura? On what grounds do we determine good? Where does it come from—from where we draw our judgments that make us believe we are right in what we think of ourselves and others? What allows us to decide that a person is not good by default for holding a certain belief or perception of things despite the fact that that person too, is simply a product of their upbringing, circumstances, and experiences? They are simply a product of what was written for them. What makes us less ignorant than them? That we utilize our tools for seeking knowledge? That we keep our eyes open? That our beliefs stem from morality, justice, compassion? Do they not possess those qualities at all, in any aspect of their lives? Why do we other-ize those who are different from us? Are our eyes open? Are we not blind to anything? What do we know firmly and truly? Sometimes the answers to these questions seem so clear—so logical, plain, and obvious. Instinctively you might want to say, “I know the answer to this. I just know. I know because I read and seek knowledge continuously. I know because I’m open minded. I know because I do research. I know because I believe in God and have faith and understanding of my faith. I know because it’s common sense. I know because there’s a thick and obvious line between good and bad.” Yeah, I know, because I think what everyone thinks too. We are not so different from one another. And yet, I don’t know much at all.

-Dilara Bhuiyan

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